Nothing is more certain to raise a black woman’s ire, incur her wrath and in general, just piss her off, like the topic of interracial dating. For all their strength, independence, and don’t need a man attitude, the simple truth is that they certainly want a man. The men that they want are black men. However, large numbers of black men are choosing to date, marry, or just fuck non black women.
In my opinion, there are a few reasons why so many brothers are saying no to sisters and yes to everyone else.
Reason 1: Because We Can
As I’ve stated in my previous articles, I’m a combat veteran. I’ve had the fortune of living in or visiting 40 countries on 6 continents during my decade long career. I can tell you from personal experience that there’s no place on earth where black men aren’t considered attractive. Personally, I’ve dated Eastern European women, (Greek) Nordic women (Icelandic), Asian women (Japanese) and Hispanic (Cuban) to name a few. All women, regardless of race find black men attractive. Even if they want don’t want to be with you, they do want to fuck you. Many foreign women, especially those from highly homogenous cultures, see black men as exotic and have Mandingo fantasies. So, even if they don’t want you as a husband, they still want to fuck you. To be honest, that’s right up most men’s alley, especially brothers.
Reason 2: Curiosity
I’m from Charleston, South Carolina. For those that don’t know, it’s one of the most historic cities in the country. The cotton gin, credited to Eli Whitney, but most likely invented by slaves, was invented here. The Civil War was started here at Ft Sumter which is still here. The vast majority of slaves came through the slave market in downtown Charleston, which is still there and can be visited. I said all of that to say this. While, I know all of these things and have seen them all my life, to a degree I take them for granted. Why? I am from Charleston and have seen them more times than I care to count. However, when tourists, or friends from other places come to visit, they want to see these things because to them they are new. The same applies to black women as it pertains to black men. We’ve seen black women our whole lives. For some of us, that’s all we know. A lot of brothers have never dated anything other than a black woman. So, there’s an inherent curiosity to give women who aren’t black a try. Fortunately, as I stated in in reason 1, by and large, black men have the luxury of choosing women who aren’t black because they clearly find us desirable.
Reason 3: Chess vs Checkers
Let me explain what I mean. A lot of nonblack, but especially white, women are playing chess while sisters are playing checkers. Let me go deeper. One of the biggest complaints that sisters have is that when brothers get on that we get a white girl. The part that they leave out is often times these women have identified these brothers before they made it. See, a lot of sisters only want the finished product. They don’t want to go along for the ride. They just want to meet you at the destination. I’ll give you a quick example. Take someone like Tiger Woods. Now, He’s half black and half Asian, which probably was a strike against him to most sisters when he was coming up. Then you factor in he wasn’t into hip hop, didn’t play a “black” sport like basketball or football, and that he went to a University, Stanford, known more for its academics than athletics, and I ask how many sisters were checking for him? I can bet that there were plenty of women who happened to not be black that saw his potential and talent. They didn’t think he was corny because he had the balls to be who he wanted to be. Those same sisters that thought he was lame and weren’t checking for him before now feel entitled to him once he makes it. Tiger Woods is an example of this happening to a famous brother, but this happens to everyday brothers as well. Alan Roger Currie talks about this in his book: The Beta Male Revolution: Why Many Men Have Totally Lost Interest in Marriage in Today’s Society.
Reason 4: Non Black Women View You Differently
There’s a general consensus among brothers that sisters don’t respect us. Not only that, they want to lead and expect us to follow. To be fair, this may not be true of all sisters, but it is true enough for a large enough number of them for it be seen as an issue. Brothers don’t want to fight. We don’t want to argue. What we want is peace. The stereotype of the loud, angry, black woman exists because there’s some truth to it. All stereotypes exist because they have some truth to them. If we’re honest with ourselves, we all know at least one, if not several sisters that embody this stereotype. A lot of women from other races and cultures still see men as the head and as leaders. They don’t take issue with letting the man lead, as he should. This is something that sisters claim they want to do as well, yet it often comes with several layers of conditions. Women of other races black men as an equal, not as a utility, not as accessory as sisters tend to do.
Reason 5: Sexual Satisfaction
A lot of sisters have sexual hang-ups. This is for a variety of reasons. For some of them, their faith prohibits sex outside of marriage. While I respect anyone has strength in their convictions and practices what they preach, the simple truth is that this is off putting to a lot of brothers. Some sisters simply aren’t interest in sex as much as brothers and see it as a means to an end rather as an act to be enjoyed. Some sisters refuse to sick dick. There’s not a man alive, regardless of race that don’t enjoy some quality head. Generally speaking, sex in general is less of an issue in other parts of the world. Americans in general are sexually repressed. Sex is just as not seen as taboo in other parts of the world. Women of other races simply don’t have the sexual limitations that sisters have. This is incredibly attractive to brothers, as many of us aren’t getting satisfied the way we’d like.
Those are my thoughts. What do you guys think?