Are you thinking of how to satisfy a woman in bed? How to please a woman in bed? How to give her an orgasm? That’s something many guys wonder about. But don’t worry: after reading this article, the female orgasm will keep no more secrets from you. If you want to sweep your girlfriend or your fuckbuddy off her feet and onto her back, or if you don’t have a regular sexual partner but you sleep with girls here and there and you want to make them scream with pleasure, pay attention to what I’m going to share with you below.
In this article, you are going to discover some crucial keys to make a girl cum. You’ll just have to incorporate the tips and advice that you are going to see below, put them into practice, and then see the results and adjust accordingly. Fucking a girl and making her reach orgasm shouldn’t be a problem for men. It is not just about diving in and diving out of her every time. You must understand the logics of fucking a girl and having her coming back for more.
Firstly, you must remember to put her at ease. If you want your partner to reach orgasm, it is essential that she feels relaxed. It’s essential that there is no stress. By putting her at ease, you increase the chances that she will achieve orgasm. But what do I mean exactly by putting her at ease? To put her at ease, first make sure that she feels desired. Some girls are self-conscious about some parts of their body. Don’t forget to compliment her. Tell her how much you find her beautiful or pay her some specific compliments about her body parts.
Also, you should remember to create the right environment: arrange the place that you are to dick her.
– Dim lights: soft light (not totally dark, though, because the sight of your body during sex can arouse her even more.
– Cleanliness: it might seem obvious, but most men tend to neglect hygiene and cleanliness in the place they live. Girls care more about hygiene and cleanliness. They are more sensitive to it. This is why by making sure that the place where you plan to have sex is clean, you allow her to feel more relaxed.
– Quietness: no external disturbances such as the phone ringing, notifications, and so on. Shut down your phone and other devices that could disturb sexual intercourse.
Although there will still be times when you will have no control over some of those parameters; for instance, if you make love at a party (i.e. not at your place) or in a public place. The points listed above are not absolutely necessary to please a woman sexually, but they can help.
Secondly, think about her pleasure. Many men forget about this: they think primarily about their pleasure, they think primarily about themselves. Many guys think only about themselves and completely forget the pleasure of their partner. Or they think that they are giving pleasure to their partner when they are not even close. What you need to understand is that the body of a woman and the body of a man are built differently. They don’t work the same way. Women don’t feel pleasure the same way that men do.
They are not aroused the same way as men are. Women have many more erogenous zones than men. Their bodies are much more sensitive to touching. They can reach one or several repeated orgasms. And they can achieve orgasm thanks to various forms of stimulation, while men have fewer erogenous zones and can basically have only one orgasm per sex session. What’s more is that men are generally all the same when it comes to having an orgasm.
Women can be very different: some women achieve orgasm simply through touching a specific area of their body, other women reach orgasm by touching another area of their body. Each woman is different. There is a thing you need to understand: If the mere view of a female body is enough to turn on a man, the opposite is not true. In most cases, viewing a male body is not enough to make a woman horny. What arouses women is touching, caressing, hugging. Hence, the importance of thinking how to please her.
It starts by being aware of the differences between men and women when it comes to orgasm, by being aware that it’s necessary to explore the erogenous zones of your partner in order to find out what makes her wet. And in order to figure out where you are heading, you must be attentive to her reactions. You must sense which touches arouses her, which touches bring her discomfort, by being attentive to her breathing, to her moaning, to her movements, in order to understand how her body works and what makes her wet.
Also, foreplay is another crucial step to make her wet. Too often, most men tend to rush it. After all, in order to fuck, we just need to have an erection, don’t we? Sure, but for women it is different. Women require much more time to get horny. By making sure to make her moist and wanting you before penetrating her, you dramatically increase her chances of reaching orgasm during sex. You can even give her an orgasm during foreplay, before penetrating her. Foreplay is never too long. As long as your partner doesn’t ask you to penetrate her, you can continue foreplay. Let’s meet in part two of this article.