I fall into depression easily. But I have learnt how to manage my depression. I have made up my mind that even if I must die, I will never kill myself for anything or anyone. So, sometimes when I’m depressed, I go to porn sites and watch enough of pornographic videos until I snap out of my depression. Porn are made for humans to watch, not for animals. They are made by people and for people. I’m trying to live a very transparent life, so that when I finally die, God can welcome me to paradise as a faithful servant.
We are in a world where deceit rules and reigns. People are afraid of the society. They are afraid to declare who they are and where they belong. They don’t want the society to criticize them or label them badly, so they pretend about almost everything. It is very easy for people to criticize you when they collect your mobile phone and open the gallery and then find porn videos. Most of them will be surprised to see erotic videos on your phone, especially if you are a Christian. In their minds, a Christian shouldn’t watch porn.
The other day, a female friend collected my mobile phone to transfer some files. She checked into my gallery and found some of the erotic videos I downloaded on my phone. She looked at me and told me that she couldn’t believe I could have things like that on my phone. I made her understand that I downloaded them so that I can watch them anytime I wanted. She said I should have hidden it. But I made her understand that I hate to pretend about things that make me comfortable. Now, she appreciates my sincerity and openness.
You can choose between living your life the way you want and allowing the society to dictate for you what you should do. It is your choice. Everyone should do what works for them, as long as what works for them doesn’t tamper with other people’s security and happiness. Porn is good. It depends on how you view it. As a couple, you can watch porn to spice up your sex life. It can help you to learn different positions. Most married people don’t know any other sex position apart from missionary style. That is why they always have a boring sex life.
When I come on social media and talk openly about sex, some of them will call me a sinner. They will call me different names. But, many marriages have scattered because most people don’t know how to manage their sex life. Some ignorant Nigerians will even tell you that sex is not food. We know. It may be inconsequential but lack of it is responsible for many broken homes. They say sex is not food, but people still leave their marriages to go and get laid by someone they are not married to. Why do we keep deceiving ourselves?
Nigerians, get sense, please. You have been stupid enough. It is time to wake up from your stupidity. Most of you may find it difficult to believe that your pastor who preaches to you every Sunday still goes back home to fuck his wife. Yes! Pastor has to fuck. He is human, not an angel. He has blood running in his body, too. Your pastor didn’t come from heaven. He was born by a woman. Your pastor’s dick also rises. Pastors do have erection. You found out that your pastor’s wife is pregnant? Cool. It wasn’t Angel Gabriel that fucked her. It was your pastor!
Many years ago, I had a conversation with a pastor and he told me that he watches pornography with his wife. He spoke with sincerity. And I loved him. Pornography is allowed for Christians and married people. They will learn better moves and styles. You can watch it and tell your partner how you want to be fucked. You may find it unbelievable that pastors also moan. Your General Overseer moans. That beautiful lady sitting by your side in church has probably been fucked before coming for the service.
When you are stressed, your brain releases cortisol that blocks problem-solving and the ability to think clearly. In a study conducted by Carnegie Mellon University, men who flipped through pictures of naked women cut their cortisol in half. Cool, right? Women also experience a decrease in cortisol, and of the 85 percent of women who say they watch porn to escape reality, 23 percent of them say it also relieves their stress. Watching porn is accessible, and it is okay to end a very stressful day in the comfort of your own home with a little erotica if you feel like it.