It is no secret that many of the young men out there have a little bit of a hard time confidently and successfully approaching girls and going out on dates. We’ve all been there at some point. But when you finally reach the stage where you can get into the proper headspace and the core of the matter, and where you can realize the gist of it all, thing get much easier and smoother. It’s at this point that you finally realize that it is all a big game, and anyone can play. And everyone in this game wins, no matter the outcome. Read on and find out just how come that there is no bad outcome to dating and interacting with ladies.
At some point in the youth of every man, approaching a girl on your own and instigating a flirty conversation can seem a task so daunting and impossible, that you’d feel more comfortable wrestling a bear instead. Let’s lay out the fact that this feeling is completely normal and expected for all young men and the early, independent social interactions. Most men overcome this with age, but some struggle longer than the others. So, just how can you meet someone with success and leave a good impression? In this basic introductory article, we will lay out some facts and tips to follow for an easier, more confident countenance, and a dauntless, determined conquest of the dreaded social interaction.
Understanding the Win-Win Situation
An important aspect to remember, is that in the game of dating, approaching girls, meeting new people and general social interacting, there is no bad outcome. Even if you face rejection, bland and boring dates and overall weak chemistry between persons, the outcome is always good. You may wonder how come? Well it’s simple. All these interactions, whether successful or otherwise, teach you a lesson. And that is always a good thing. You cast your line and if you catch something, great. If not, still good, since you get the opportunity to learn from your experiences, tailor your approach until you find the perfect combination that will work towards a positive outcome. You can understand the quirks and snags in your approach, style and countenance, and while still aiming to be and remain yourself, you can iron out these wrinkles and become a better, refined person in return.
There is no point in pretending, changing your personality and putting on masks, in order to satisfy the social norms and high expectances of the people around you. Serious ladies will certainly appreciate a well to do, confident man who has his mind set straight and who is himself and on his own path. Individuality is key here, being yourself and being confident. This confidence is the essence of a successful man. It changes the perspective that other people see you through, and it makes you stand out as a person who is out to win and achieve success. This feeling is almost palpable and it rubs off on those around you, giving you better chances of being accepted, praised and flirted with.
Feeling insecure will only show to the people around you that you’re not following your path and that you try to conform to whatever margins and barriers you envisioned. Find yourself, discover yourself, and be that man. No one can or should stop you from being who you want to be. And with the added confidence and charisma, people are more likely to accept you for who you are and appreciate it as well.
Confidence, Style and Charisma
One of the crucial and key points of being noticed, appreciated and seen as a person to be noted is finding a suitable style. Remember that style and a smart, sharp look will never, ever, get out of fashion. Ladies love a sharp dressed player. It shows of that you care about your looks and hygiene, that you’re stylish and intelligent, and that you are a notch above other men. When you’re out in the club, or the bar, and walk in amongst all the bland, boring dressed men, you will be the center point with your sharp, gentleman’s style. All well to do ladies will instantly put you one step ahead the other men, and that is half of your job done. The other half is up to you. Put that knowledge, and the confidence on the number one spot in your mind, and find your catch. Approach with confidence, clear and concise sentences, and a dose of personality and charisma. Ladies will catch on to a man being himself and that’s a good thing for most. Remember this and fear naught as you head out there, where there is catch a-plenty!
With these observances in mind, we hope you will be a lot more confident and clear about what you should do to find more success among people. Remember to absolutely never conform to others just to be accepted. Always be yourself no matter what. You will thank yourself later for remaining so. People will accept you for who you want to be, if you show enough resolution, confidence and courage in day to day situations. And once this conclusion hits, the world and all its ladies will be out before you, to conquer and explore. Gentlemen, cast your lines!