When it comes to cheating, it is generally believed that men are more involved than women. Even women themselves have always said that men are all the same, that we all cheat naturally because we are moved by what we see. This is a lie. It is not only men who cheat. Women also cheat. The only thing is that women are more clever in hiding their promiscuity. And they, too, like men have reasons why they cheat. So, let us quickly look at some reasons why women cheat in relationships.
Boredom: Like men, women also love varieties and they want to be happy in marriage, but when they feel their spouse is not creative, they tend to stretch their legs out and look for someone who can give it to them better. Some women believe that new relationships are exciting, and it is more so because such men tend to do everything possible to impress the woman, as against what they had been used to with their husbands. According to Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers University in the US, women are more likely to have an affair because of loneliness.
Lack of Emotional Connection or Attention: We have heard it several times that women are emotional beings who need constant attention and care from their spouses, thus, if their husbands do not show them the much needed intimacy and affection, some tend to look for it outside the relationship because it is in their genes to be cared for, and when they don’t get it, they look for it, which often compels them to fall into the waiting hands of other men. And it doesn’t matter whether the other man is below their husband in status or financial capacity.
Sex: Who doesn’t like good sex? It is one of the reasons some women cheat on their men. Findings have shown that some women have extramarital sexual relationship because they are not getting enough of good sex. Some do it because they are not getting any, maybe the refusal of the man to touch them based on conflict or disagreement, and a lot of women do it out of emotional disconnection from their spouses. You can’t take away sex from relationships. Sex is like the oil that makes the engine of relationship run smoothly. That’s why some women don’t mind fucking any guy with a dick, as long as he can give it to them the way they want it.
Revenge: It is interesting to note that some women engage in extramarital affairs to get back at their husbands, especially when such men had also cheated on them. Such women have been found to do it in style, pride and they see it as the best way to revenge the wrong done to them by the cheating husband. Some women who have been cheated before feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad and violated and it affects their relationship, mood, behaviour and the ability to trust the man, thus, they want to make such men feel the way they felt.
Lack of Orgasm: Most women do not reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, which on its own creates some discomfort for them, hence, there is the possibility for some to look for that sexual satisfaction elsewhere and it is more likely if they have a waiting or willing partner outside. It is equally not strange for some women to engage in extramarital affairs if their husbands have small manhood. This shows the importance of sex in marriage. Size matters to some women. The size of the dick can determine the amount of pleasure they get in the sex. Some women love it big while others love it average.
Addiction: Some women engage in a never-ending stream of sex and romance as a way to self-regulate uncomfortable emotions and the pain of underlying psychological conditions such as depression, severe anxiety, low self-esteem, and unresolved childhood trauma. And there are those who do it for the fun. I have heard about women who can hardly go a day without having sex. This kind of women are nymphomaniacs who like to be fucked everyday. They have excessive libido and this can make it easier for them to cheat if their man can’t satisfy them.