Why you should never agree to an early date with a woman

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You’re at the grocery store shopping for fruits and vegetables on a Saturday morning. You started juicing a few months and have noticed the benefits immediately so you’re all in. Every other day you’re in the produce aisle stocking up for the next few day’s juices. On this particular day you spot a hot red head with an ass like a Georgia peach.

Being the ass assassin you are, you make your way over to her and strike up conversation. She reciprocates your interest as the two of you engage in about a 10 minute conversation about juicing and fitness. Turns out she’s a spin instructor and a nutritionist so she’s giving you pointers on the kinds of juices that work best for a man like you.

Knowing it’s useless to stand here and talk to her all day without making a move (that’s how you get put into the friend zone) you pull out your phone and say “You seem cool. Put in your number and we’ll hangout sometime.” She smiles, takes your phone, and puts in her number. You say your goodbyes and go about the rest of your day.

Later that day you whip out your phone to arrange a meet up with her:

You: hey it’s Donovan we met at the grocery store earlier

Her: Oh hey! I was wondering when you were gonna text 🙂

You: im headed to the sky bar around 8. come with me

Her: I’d love to! But can we go a little earlier? Like maybe 4ish??

…and this is where most men would get tripped up.

Agreeing to an early date is always a bad idea. Especially with an extremely attractive woman and there are 2 very important reasons why:

#1: Alpha fucks beta bucks and the friend zone

The concept of alpha fucks/beta bucks (aka alpha fux beta bux aka afbb etc) is prevalent in the manosphere and it’s very simple. Women in 2018 use beta males to take care of all of their non sexual needs while using alpha males to take care of all of their sexual needs. For example, a woman could have a guy in the friend zone. The friend zoned guy takes her to dinner, listens to her problems, helps her with chores around the house, or anything else she needs him to do that has nothing to do with sex.

Then she has another guy who literally does nothing but fuck her brains out. He has a devil-may-care attitude, he’s in great shape, and fucks her like a porn star. She knows he’s not going to buy her meals, or listen to her drone on about her problems, or give her a ride if she needs one but she’s okay with that. She’s got her beta bucks to take care of that.

He will never fuck her. She knows it, he doesn’t.

The same concept happens with marriages and long term relationships. Women who cheat on their boyfriends and husbands do so with alpha males. They stopped giving pussy to their significant others a long time ago but these men still pay the bills, and take care of her. Meanwhile, she’s getting her back blown out by the dude who couldn’t give less of a shit about her outside of the orgasms she provides him.

Agreeing to an early date sets you up to be the beta bucks. The reason she wants to move the date up is because she’s not really interested in you sexually. Something about your vibe made her want to put you in the friend zone. Maybe you tried to impress and qualify yourself to her, maybe you came off as thirsty or desperate, it could be any number of things. Regardless of what it is, if she really wanted to hook up with you she would agree to the 8 o’clock meet up you suggested earlier.

And by agreeing to the 4pm meet up, you are quite literally putting yourself in the friend zone. Every time the two of you meet up, it will be at or before 4pm because that’s the tone she set. And what happens after she hangs out with you (which, by the way, never leads to sex)? She goes and fucks guys like me. Guys who wouldn’t allow her to move out meet up into the afternoon. Guys who come at her from a position of strength and create sexual tension without giving off a needy or thirsty vibe.

A lot of guys wonder how they get friend zoned by women. This is one of many ways they put themselves in the friend zone.

#2: Free meals

Believe it or not, gentlemen, there are women out there who are on dating apps for no other reason than to get fed. Yes, you read that correctly. They agree to dates or meet ups for the sole reason of getting free meals.

There are scores of articles including this one, and this one where females tell you straight up in no uncertain terms that they agree to go out with guys just to get a free meal.

There are a lot of places to eat, but my budget doesn’t always allow me to try them,” she says. “A great way to supplement [my budget] is to go on a first date even if I’m not personally feeling it.

We all know that girls live above their means. A lot of them have figured out that feminism, combined with male thirst has created an army of men who ripe for the picking in terms of being taken advantage of.

He feeds her at 5pm, another man fucks her at 8pm

You want to enjoy the city, but you don’t really want to waste two hours of your paycheck on eating out,” she said. “So it’s pretty easy to kind of just say yes if someone’s offering to take you out.

Going back to the example above, if you agree to an early date with a girl, she not only may put you in the friend zone, but she is more than likely using you to get free food! She’ll go out with you at 4pm, you’ll pay for the meal, she gets full, tells you she has to go, goes home, gets all dolled up, and goes to Donovan Sharpe’s place to get ass fucked until midnight.

So, to live a slightly more luxurious life that doesn’t consist of microwavable ramen noodles and tap water, she started foodie calling men she met on Tinder twice a week, who would take her to pricey restaurants and bars around the city, and never hear from her again.

This is akin to you taking your girlfriend to the prom, picking her up in the limo, showing her a good time, dancing and flirting with her, then taking her to the hotel room for someone else to fuck her.

Don’t be that guy. Do not agree to an early date with a woman…..EVER

Donovan is a sexist son of a bitch who objectifies women by keeping them on their toes, their backs, and their knees where they belong. Although he’s been banned on Twitter and YouTube, that doesn’t stop him from dropping red pill truth every weekday afternoon at 4:30EST on TSR: Live with Donovan Sharpe. Add him on Facebook and follow him on Instagram.

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Donovan is a sexist son of a bitch who objectifies women by keeping them on their toes, their backs, and their knees where they belong. Although he's been banned on Twitter and YouTube, that doesn't stop him from dropping red pill truth Sunday through Thursday evenings at 7EST/4PST on TSR: Primetime with Donovan Sharpe. Add him on Facebook and follow him on Instagram.